Dear all,
Congratulations on the successful execution of the parade!
This being the final time I am in NCC, I have decided to write a history of my experience in this unit and what mistakes I myself have committed, and how I changed with time, as well as comments for all of you. I hope that as a result of reading this, you will hopefully learn from my mistakes, be aware of what mistakes not to commit in future, and change for the better. What I will write about will be mostly flaws in MY CHARACTER, which I feel that I should write about most.
POP is a perfect time to reflect on one’s own behavior, character and attitude throughout the past year. I know that it is hard to accept a flaw in one’s own character, but I plead that you read on. It takes a lot to admit one’s own flaws, but it is only through humility and willingness to change that one will be able to change for the better.
Character is very important to the functioning of the unit. Remember, a unit is a group of cadets that work together to achieve. It is a group effort that requires participation from everyone. A unit of capable and intelligent cadets will go nowhere if they do not cooperate. Even if something is achieved, what do these cadets get eventually? Frustration from being with each other. That is definitely not desired.
I may have been in NCC for less time that many of you, but I can say that I have learned a lot from being with all of you for over 1.5 years. And when I say learn, I am not referring to drills and other NCC-related knowledge, but rather intangible qualities especially in terms of mindset and character. I will go to the point and show you a timeline of what I thought of myself during the past 1.5 years here.
2007, when I just joined:
After transferring from a prestigious NPCC unit, I felt that this unit was a failure. I was arrogant and kept looking down on the unit. This feeling gradually eroded till specialists’ course.
2007, National Day Parade:
I was too authoritative and demanding of everyone. I was too much into the successful execution of the parade till I had forgotten about the welfare of the participants. After all, these were people who can feel, not robots. They deserve to be treated like people.
2007, CCA Recruitment fair 2008 training
Although I was the one who initially choreographed the fancy drill performance, all participants (Bingjie, Zi Yang, Derek, Han Siang, Stanley, Je Hon) offered very intelligent and useful feedback to change the script and that made the performance a success. Also, initially I thought 1 week of practice would not succeed without timing. But Stanley suggested to do without timing, and it was a success. Thank you, for teaching me that one should always aim high. I also used to be a person who did not show concern for what others thought, but through this event, I thus learned that I should listen to and accept others’ opinions more often.
In short, this is what I’ve learned from being in NCC, and I would like all of YOU to know that YOU have made an impact in my life, by teaching me all these:
1. I have learned to be less selfish.
2. I have learned to think more flexibly.
3. Uniformed groups are not merely about doing your best, but also learning to work with others, and accepting others for who they are.
4. I have learned to consider others’ opinion much more often now.
5. Lead by respect, not by authority.
Now I shall continue with my comments on the unit. I will be completely frank here.
Part Cs:
Initially I thought you all were not capable of leading the unit. Many of you were not confident in leading or more so even drills. I also thought that many of you did not put in much effort. But things have changed a lot in this period of time I have spent here with you. Now, I see EVERY one of you attending trainings regularly. Everyone has also become more enthusiastic and confident. I would especially commend Russell on becoming so much more enthusiastic about NCC. Congratulations on your current post, Russell. Similarly, for EVERYONE else, thank you for continuously being so enthusiastic about NCC. It makes me glad to see all of you putting in effort to do your part for this unit. And to be frank here, Zac, trust me that you will find more peace in yourself neglecting your personal achievements and fostering good relationships. Remember that friendships are the most valuable things that you can get out of NCC, not your rank or post or records. Thank you, part Cs.
Part Bs:
Well there are only three of you. Jun Kiat, I don’t know if you’re even reading this, but I would like you to know that you’re not out of this unit. Although you have not been attending trainings regularly, it is alright to start anew. It is never too late. As for all, you are going to have a difficult time running this unit in time to come when you take lead. I believe you all have the potential to maintain and strengthen our unit despite the small size of your part, so all the best! Thank you, Part Bs.
Part As:
You all are a very good part. All of you are enthusiastic, closely knitted and committed. All of you have exceeded my expectations in many ways, but I think your discipline has room for improvement. Still, it’s not far off from what is expected. Continue with this enthusiasm and I am sure that you will lead this unit well in time to come. Remember that friendships are the most valuable things that you can get out of NCC, not your rank or post or records. Thank you, Part As.
USM Tan Je Hon:
I have much to learn from you, especially in character. You don’t flare up easily, you are humble and yet you are committed and put effort into the unit. These qualities make you a USM who can lead well. Thank you, Je Hon.
ASM Emmanuel Goh:
Your commitment to NCC quite frankly astounds me. You are always willing to help out in any event pertaining to NCC, a level of commitment which I am unable to follow. Also, I never had anything against you no matter how much you screamed at me in the past, and I’m sorry and hope you will forgive me if I had done anything to cause you to lose respect in me (if you did). Thank you, Emmanuel.
CO Mr. Tham:
Although I only meet you occasionally, you are always planning for the future of our unit and never fail to be concerned about our well being and development in NCC. I respect you for that and also for painstakingly putting in effort into our unit from behind our shadows, which all of us never get to see and thank you for. Now on the behalf of this unit I would like to thank you not only for your effort, but also your optimism that spurs all of us to do our best. Thank you, Mr. Tham.
Now, may we all have a successful year ahead! Thank you all for bringing joy into my life, but more importantly, I would like all of you to know that you have made a positive impact in my life, and similarly I am sure that YOU have also made a positive impact on other cadets around you. I appreciate and thank you for that.
Thank you! Don’t forget to watch National Day and Beijing Olympics!
SSG Lam Jun Wei
NCC (Land)
NUS High School of Math and Science